Domestic abuse
Domestic abuse is any incident, or pattern of incidents, of controlling, coercive or threatening behaviour, violence, or abuse between people aged 16 or over in intimate relationships or who (in England, Wales and Northern Ireland) are personally connected through family relationships or living arrangements.
Domestic Abuse Law:
The legal definitions of domestic abuse in the four UK nations are:
The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 defines domestic abuse as:
Abuse between people aged 16 or over who are ‘personally connected’.
‘Personally connected’ means that they are:
- current or former intimate partners
- family members
- individuals who share parental responsibility for a child
- people who live or have lived together
The Domestic Abuse and Civil Proceeding Act (Northern Ireland) 2021 defines domestic abuse as:
Abusive behaviour between people aged 16 or over who are personally connected and where the course of behaviour* is likely to cause the victim to suffer physical or psychological harm.
‘Personally connected’ means that they are:
- current or former intimate partners
- members of the same family
- people who are or who have lived together
*A 'course of behaviour' is behaviour that happens on two or more occasions.
The Domestic Abuse (Scotland) Act 2018 defines domestic abuse as:
Abusive behaviour towards a partner or ex-partner when both are over the age of 16 and the behaviour is likely to cause the victim to suffer physical or psychological harm.
Who is affected by domestic abuse?
It happens across all sections of society, regardless of gender, age, ability, religion, race, ethnicity, financial background or sexual orientation.
Both men and women can be victims, although a greater number of women experience domestic abuse and are more likely to be seriously injured or killed because of it.
Babies, children and young people are affected by domestic abuse and laws across the UK recognise the impact on children. If you are concerned that a child is living in a home where there is domestic abuse, or has a parent / carer in an abusive relationship, talk to your Safeguarding Lead.
Coercive control
Coercive control is an act or a pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation and intimidation or other abuse used to harm, punish, or frighten another person. It is designed to make a person subordinate or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting them and their resources, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape, and regulating their everyday behaviour.
Domestic abuse can include:
- Emotional abuse
- Physical abuse
- Sexual abuse
- Financial abuse
- Forced marriage
- Female Genital Mutilation
- ‘Honour’-based abuse
It is usually frequent and persistent, can happen inside and outside the home, and can continue even after a relationship has ended.
Possible signs and indicators:
- isolation – not seeing friends and family
- limited access to money
- low self-esteem, depression, self-harm, and eating disorders.
- signs of distress, tearfulness or anger
- reluctance to be alone with a particular person
- visible injuries and bruising.
- injuries that don't match the explanation given.
- unexplained falls
- subdued or changed behaviour
- changes in weight, being excessively under or overweight or malnourished.
- signs of coercive control
- feeling that the abuse is their fault when it is not.
Page last updated: 11 November 2025